I grew up in a large town and now live in a small one, but there is one thing that hasn't changed other than the ratio getting worse: a lack of "spirit" in the event for so many. You have the few groups of kids close by that walk door to door then run up with their parents nearby, "Trick or treat!" showing off their outfits and a smile, holding out their small plastic pumpkin-shaped containers or bags and each of them saying "thank you" at every door. Often this gives the parents the opportunity to show off the newest trick-or-treater in the family gripping a bag barely big enough to hold 5 pieces of hard candy. Once these kids have made it through a block or two, they go home.
But then there is that other, much larger number of kids that come in groups via cars from other parts of town (making their way to every house possible before the night is over.) They walk up and crowd the door, often even trying to push inside, each wearing nothing that even resembles an attempt at a costume (ok, so they can't afford one... at least maybe some ribbons and aluminum trinkets could have been slapped on.) They each stand there with a bored or sad look holding a large garbage bag that drags the ground due to the weight of all the candy acquired so far, never saying a word except maybe for seeing the candy, "I want that one!" and trying to reach for it. Then they walk off quickly -- sometimes even before the candy has hit the bottom of the bag -- still without a word, not even bothering to walk the 40 steps to the next house but instead back to the car to be driven there. More than two-thirds of the kids that come here the past few years are in the second group. I'm not sure if I am even going to give out candy this year for that reason.