Apparently one name being bandied about with a little more weight than Pattison or Cera (still say that stories complete bull in any case) is Zac Efron. Empire took it and ran with it and have picked a list of could-be's... Empire 10 Actors for Spider-Man
Don't be sorry it means that you are too old, but since you're 19 years old it was a possibility.
Out of that list the only one I'd put my money on is number 10 - Josh Hutcherson. The rest of them are to freaking old, Jake Gyllenhaal give me a frakking break.
Hmm... not sure, considering most of the Buffy cast were almost 30 in season one.
Some of you may find todays IMDB poll interesting.http://www.imdb.com/poll/